A super detailed guide to girls’ toys! (A must-read for both beginners and veterans)

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Girls, let’s just say, who isn’t curious about something new these days? Girls’ toys are no longer something to be ashamed of. Face yourself and please yourself, yyds! Forget the “sex toys = shame” mentality anymore; pleasing yourself is the coolest way to live.

In today’s installment, I’ll take you on a comprehensive teardown of the world of girls’ toys: What’s worth buying? How to use them without feeling awkward? How should beginners, advanced users, and veterans choose? How can you avoid safety and hygiene pitfalls? We’ve got it all covered!

Are you ready? “Timen believers,” “Buzz lovers,” “Back to Basics,” all of you!

1. Why should girls be bold in choosing toys? (Break away shame and embrace joy)

To be honest, modern women are increasingly aware of their sexual needs. Toys are no longer just for “single saviors”, but are also a great help in enhancing happiness, exploring oneself, and flirting with couples!

Sexual needs equal health needs . Few creatures can experience pleasure, so don’t let sexual shame hold you back. Pleasing yourself is a way to care for both your body and your mind.

Remember one thing: sex toys are not substitutes, they are boosters for you to explore yourself!

2. A Guide to the Classification of Sex Toys for Girls

In vitro stimulation (beginner-friendly, safe and stress-free)

1. Vibrator (Buzz, a great tool for beginners)

Appearance & Definition

: Small and cute, like a candy egg, available in wired/wireless versions, portable and concealed, no one in your family can find it when you hide it under your pillow.

usage

: This device is designed to stimulate the clitoris . Apply directly to the vulva and clitoris, activate the vibration, and enjoy the buzzing sensation of the motor. Never use it for internal use to prevent accidental discharge.

Suitable for people

: The first choice for beginners/shy people/ sisters who want to take it slow.

Advantages and Disadvantages

: It has a wide range of stimulation, is gentle and easy to control, and has a low threshold; the disadvantage is that the “offensive” is not strong enough, and sisters who pursue extreme pleasure may not feel satisfied.

Purchase tips

: Look at the material (silicone yyds), ​​waterproof function is very important, it is recommended to choose a big brand with guaranteed after-sales service.

2. Sucker (a masterpiece of “DouDouBird,” a pleasure harvester)

Appearance & Definition

: It has a small sucking mouth, looks fashionable and easy to hide, and some are made into perfume bottles and lipsticks to prevent “social death”.

usage

: Aim the suction head at the bean, turn on multiple levels of suction, and feel the pleasure of “shooting the cow from behind the mountain”. Some can even suck and vibrate at the same time, doubling the pleasure.

Suitable for people

: It is suitable for both beginners and veterans, especially for sisters who are looking for quick ascension or do not like to enter the body .

Advantages and Disadvantages

: The stimulation is concentrated, the climax comes quickly, and the duration is long, making it easy to have “sage time”; the disadvantage is that it only targets the clitoris and has limited effect on other parts of the body.

Purchase tips

: IPX7 waterproof, silent, silicone material priority, remote control function is suitable for long-distance/couple interaction.

3. AV stick/massage stick (advanced/couple artifact)

Appearance & Definition

: It looks like a microphone, has strong vibration and large amplitude, and some can even massage the shoulders and neck like a fascia gun.

usage

: Massage the vulva and clitoris, suitable for sisters who like strong stimulation and pursue a wide range of pleasure, and also suitable for couples to interact.

Suitable for people

: Sisters who have some experience with toys and like strong tastes , beginners should be careful.

Advantages and Disadvantages

: The stimulation is wide, the climax is fast, the shape is not concealed enough, the portability is average, and it is easy to cause hand numbness.

Purchase tips

: Choose from multiple gears, silicone heads, and wireless models to make remote control more fun.

4. Pen-type/precision stimulator (“bean-hitting artifact”)

Appearance & Definition

: Like a pen, it attacks accurately, specially treats pimples, and is small and portable.

usage

: Point-to-point stimulation, suitable for experienced players who seek intense local pleasure.

Suitable for people

: A favorite for heavy gamers, SM, and those who love pain . Beginners should be careful.

Advantages and Disadvantages

: Highly stimulating and prone to overload; sisters who are not used to it should enter with caution.

Purchase tips

: Choose low-noise, thin-head design with multiple gears for easy control.

5. Licking toys (for simulated oral sex, foreplay)

Appearance & Definition

: It has a small rotating tongue that simulates licking the nipple, and some of them have suction function.

usage

: Suitable for sisters who like to take it slow and enjoy intermittent pleasure, a must for foreplay.

Suitable for people

: Sisters who like oral experience and slow pace .

Advantages and Disadvantages

: Mild stimulation, intermittent rhythm, suitable for slow-paced players.

Purchase tips

: Be sure to use more lubrication, make it hygienic and easy to clean, and the material must be safe!

In-body/Internal and External Combination (Advanced/Veteran Special)

6. Vibrator/G-spot vibrator/multi-function vibrator

Appearance & Definition

: They are in the shape of simulated penis or rod, most of them can be inserted into the body, and some have functions such as telescopic/rotating beads/sucking/rotation.

usage

: After lubrication and cleaning, slowly push the vibrator into the body, adjust the vibration level, and explore the G-spot/sensitive area. Some have a dual stimulation design, pushing the G-spot internally and vibrating the clitoris externally, for double the pleasure.

Suitable for people

: Sisters who have sexual experience, high threshold, and pursue deep pleasure .

Advantages and Disadvantages

: Powerful functions, rich pleasure, average disguise, so novices should be cautious when entering the body.

Purchase tips

: Don’t be too greedy for large size. In the initial stage, choose slender/soft rubber material. More functions do not mean better performance. Choose the one that suits you.

7. Dildos

Appearance & Definition

: 1:1 restoration of male genitals, divided into manual/electric, with suction cup for fixation.

usage

: Use lubricant and push slowly to experience the sensation of penetration. Perfect for a solitary night to explore your deeper needs.

Suitable for people

: Sisters who have experience in body penetration and users who like simulation experience .

Advantages and Disadvantages

: Strong simulation, high satisfaction, the appearance may make novices uncomfortable, pay attention to cleanliness and safety.

Purchase tips

: TPE/silicone material is preferred, and the electric model should be waterproof and clean.

8. Wearable stick/two-player interactive toys

Appearance & Definition

: Can be worn on the body, suitable for couples to interact, some have built-in vibration.

usage

: Enter the body + wear, unlock new postures for two people, enhance interest and intimacy.

Suitable for people

: Couples, sisters who want to try something new .Advantages and Disadvantages

: Enhance interest, strong sense of interaction, use requires communication and trust.

Purchase tips

: Choose soft material and appropriate size, small size is recommended for beginners.3. Buy & Use Guide (Be rational and avoid pitfalls!)

1. Material safety first

Be sure to check the materials carefully when purchasing: medical silicone, TPE, and ABS plastic are preferred, and stay away from “three-no” products; sisters with sensitive skin/allergies should especially read the labels carefully!

2. Brand & After-sales

Choose big brands/products with regular after-sales channels, and don’t buy cheap brands. After-sales service is more reliable and safer.

3. Hygiene & Cleanliness

Before and after the first use, clean it with warm water + neutral lotion . You can use alcohol to disinfect it to prevent infection.It is recommended to use penetrating toys with condoms , especially when shared by multiple people, it is absolutely not advisable!

Keep dry when storing, to avoid moisture and mold.

4. Use Tips

Lubricant is essential, reduce friction and prevent injuries, best water-soluble.Don’t be too eager for excitement, do what you can, slowly explore according to your own threshold.Stop the discomfort/pain immediately. Your body is your own, don’t force it.

5. How to avoid embarrassment

The appearance of toys is becoming more and more “simulated”, with perfume bottles and lipstick shapes chosen to avoid “social death”;

If you have a naughty child at home, remember to hide/lock it up!

4. Psychological Care & Communication Suggestions

Don’t be nervous when using it for the first time, take your time, get familiar with your body, and enjoy the exploration process;

Sisters with partners

Communicate in advance before use, respect each other’s feelings, and collaborate more happily;

Encountering discomfort and questions

, consult professionals or regular sellers in time, and do not use it on your own.

5. Conclusion & Tips

In conclusion: Pleasing yourself is a legitimate pursuit! Sex toys aren’t shameful; they’re a sign of modern women’s confidence and a healthy lifestyle. Whether you’re a die-hard or a seasoned user, you should explore and enjoy life with confidence, while maintaining safety, hygiene, and rationality.

There are countless toys, but the most important thing is to find the right one. Safety, hygiene, and rational consumption will double your happiness. May every sister at the “age of happiness” find her own great happiness!

Have questions, want to recommend a new toy, or don’t know how to choose? Leave a comment and let’s be a confident and happy hostess together!

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